I’m a 29-year-old man that is gay in Ca. Exactly why are many tops assholes that are such? I’ve had a good amount of intimate lovers ranging in age, ethnicity, and expressed orientation that is sexual. But exactly what unites them is a broad callousness toward bottoms and even a pleasure when you look at the knowledge that it’s they whom have to “use and abuse” bottoms.

Is it a social artifact? We discover the idea of putting some other person in discomfort for my pleasure so repulsive that We have yet to top anybody. I’m beginning to believe that pleasurable intercourse is actually for tops alone, and bottoms are designed to simply shut up and just just just take whatever they may be able get free from it. Help me to square the texting that bottoms are not quite as valuable as tops and also the nonchalance that accompanies the orgasm space, [...]