Thank you all for the commentary and advice!!

Re: Megan. Essentially make like Spock and employ hands to keep her open? Is right?

I attempted this as soon as the other day, my wrist had been down and my fingers pointing upwards, but my hands kept sliding in, and she will not like penetration and I also had been terrified she’d think I happened to be sneakily attempting one thing she’s said she does not enjoy, after which my hands would slip away, and my wrist was at an unpleasant place, and I also felt really embarrassing the time that is whole.

Therefore must I place a pillow under her to accomplish the hand thing? Should my wrist be above her and my hands pointed downwards or had been upwards the right means?

This informative article is *incredibly* timely, therefore kudos for that!

Concern, though: would most of the above tips [...]